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THE HAT THAT FITS - by Jen Hayes

Posted on Oct 5th, 2008 by Sarah : Writer, Teacher Sarah

With the evolution and re-wiring into The New Human 2.0™ we are being called to align to our true nature and the blue print of our gig here on the planet. As we evolve and align we begin to clarify, simplify and refine what that gig is.

We may be masterful, skilled and capable in many areas – perhaps we wear many hats, we are the teacher, the speaker, the coach, the cook, the bookkeeper, the mother – for many of us we live doing it all – I believe as we integrate all the fragments of ourselves we feel the urge to simplify our lives and realise our one hat.

There is one skill or talent that is bigger and brighter than the rest- our one hat is the hat that we wear even without realising we are wearing it. It is the hat we can, not NOT wear.

I always thought my hat was that of a teacher – I have come to realise that although I have always found myself in teaching roles my real passion is the exploration of human capacity and potential in relationship to universal energy. For example with my three girls I have explored and found new solutions for their education, behavioural patterns and energy illness that was not seen in the world at the time.

This is what lights me up – this is the passion I share with Sarah and Michelle and we share this as energetic exchange, intense and creative dialogue and valuing our abilities to access universal intelligence. We are explorers of energy and futuristic visionaries – we are like mavericks of human development. This passion is what we share and is expressed uniquely through each of us. The vibration of this is what fuels our personal and collective evolution and propels our work into new frontiers.

When we become aligned to our true nature, we have many fragments of self fully integrated and get to see what our hat really is. There fore you do not need to distinguish your life purpose. You don’t need more identities. You have a global/macro frame that is what you live by. For example for me this is to live aligned to my true nature and universal energy. I have found this choice as key in me seeing my one hat. As a result inside of me my PASSION was uncovered. This looks like a un- interrupted stream of source energy moving through my life system in one continuous direction. Therefore I no longer oscillate with what am I here for, why am I floating, why is it not working, why does my life feel like ground hog day no matter how hard I try to change myself?

Therefore I live with the big question answered. I recognise my true hat and validate it. I do it everyday and love it so I feel ignited and we co create new solutions. I know when I get stuck it is another opportunity for expansion as Einstein said “You can never solve a problem on the level on which it was created.”

I now trust a creative surge follows the inertia and a bigger frame is set within me plus more of a unified vibration. I also am a mother and parent 3 girls, work as a yoga teacher and coach and hang out enjoying all of my relationships and family.

We no longer give our energy to what does not fit for us we learn discernment and have permission to quit. Our energy is now committed, moving and funneled in one direction. This is a capacity you develop within you. It is the simultaneous ability to align to what is true, quit thoughts/beliefs/relationships/jobs that do not fit and at same time allow a higher solution/vibration to birth itself through you. If you want expansion and to move up towards gain it comes with an ability to let go of the old and embrace the lack. This is where most of us get stuck. We receive the call to move forward. We think we can control when and how. We then manage the change. We then affirm the lack. The solution then gets lost in our minds and our heart is not activated so the creative impulse stay dormant inside of us. When you choose to align to this bigger capacity within you at this level, the universe arranges life around you to meet this new vibration – you are 100% supported in every way.

More and more human beings have this capacity tagged inside of us we simply need to choose to live by it. This means we are out of control yet fully in trust. Without the lettin go the new cannot arise - this takes courage to live this way.

We begin to build structures in the world from a platform of gain and passion where we all live wearing our unique hats, aligned to our true natures.

So what is your one hat?
What is it you do without even knowing you do it?
What one skill or talent is brighter than the rest?
What can you NOT help doing?
What ignites your passion?
Have you chosen to follow your true self?


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SITTING ON THE FENCE - Jen Hayes

Posted on Oct 9th, 2008 by Sarah : Writer, Teacher Sarah

For those of us on this evolutionary path – it becomes quite apparent that there are many aspects to Self.   We are well aware of the ego aspect and it’s fears, wounds and desires and then we are also aware of our True Nature or authentic self. We know these two exist within us and are polarities of self.

But what about the Self that is aware of, recognises and witnesses the ego and the true self?  What about the part of us that is aware, (even slightly – like a niggle) that we are not following our true self or that knows we are playing out ego and making our decisions based on fear and wounds? What is that part?

This part of self is the YOU that decides and CHOOSES what to align to. After all an ego or fear based choice can be an entirely different one to that of our true self - therefore affecting the reality we experience.

Simply put, awareness of ego and True Self is not enough – you will still experience oscillation as a choice inside of self has not been made - at some point we need to uncover this choosing aspect of self - for without this being awakened we do NOT experience freedom nor do we feel there is possibility to move forward into new experiences. We sit on the fence.

Maybe we fear this choosing self as it may mean making hard-core decisions and taking real life action. Maybe by choosing to align to true self and following our hearts we at some level know this means quitting certain thing in life – it might mean making difficult and confronting choices that take enormous courage. Maybe we think it is easier to sit on the fence?

Unfortunately, the harsh reality is that whilst we sit on the fence we do not experience anything different, we remain unfulfilled and trapped – freedom is simply not possible.

  
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THE NEW PARADIGM

Posted on Oct 12th, 2008 by Sarah : Writer, Teacher Sarah

People keep talking about living in the NEW paradigm. I listen and breathe and at same time I have an opinion.

Most people are just regurgitating the old paradigm.

My truth regarding the new paradigm is it is simple and complex.

The leap humanity is making is huge. It means you don’t take concepts you know and say they are new, that is not the whole perspective.

If we have not been able to live concepts such as love, forgiveness, world peace and the Authentic Self then maybe we have an opportunity to think beyond this and include them.

This means you have to be able to transcend the one simple solution identity and either/or thinking to be able to have simultaneous perspectives running.

To think beyond givens means you don’t espouse things written or teachings from the past. You include them and you ask to not know then add your perspective that flows naturally from within you.

Individuality and free thinking is what we must embrace for anything new in the world to bloom. That looks like you feel confronted and for much of the time lost. Stay with this because inside of you will come what is true and possibly a new edge too much you believe.

If we are aligning to unity consciousness that will include the whole – all of it - dark/light, love/fear, day/night and happy/sad. Apparently this is now here on earth for us all receive so we can live our lives from this place as access is available.

If we are becoming more whole the darkness we have run from is now being highlighted in us all and is just what exists within the light. As this happens there will be less you see outside of self and less reaction to what you perceive as fear.

That also means the old ways we perceive things as if we CREATED them is not necessarily what this NEW paradigm is suggesting. That is a huge one for us to leap beyond. We love identifying our ‘issues’ and then working out how we created them. Then what? Because you have identified it we think it is done. This way of viewing life keeps us in our darkness and the opportunity now is to move past this. We include this self awareness and as we enter a time were all is inclusive we cease to judge self or others from our old thinking constructs. The challenge being we embrace all inside of self and ask our heart to guide us. That means we go beyond the structures we have set regarding personal growth and how we ‘think’ it is to live as an evolving human - being.

Imagine if there is no polarity. Polarities will no longer exist as unification occurs. We are in the process of this happening inside of who we are.

That means concepts like giving and receiving are merged inside of you. Masculine and feminine is one so gender issues are not real either. We are humans walking beside each other continually in unification, in process, it is happening anyway whether conscious or not. Takes the heat off I reckon and means we actually don’t do anything to make this happen. Also means the ways we create separation and our spiritual arrogance is dumped. There is no one way and/or possibly consciousness theories and levels of development. There is one heart of the planet that connects us all as universal energy. The part that is our choice is - if we listen and align with it. That does not mean you need to be cognitively brilliant. It is a felt sense anyone can feel it and respond to this.

At the same time maybe we need to accept that not everyone has the same gig. Just maybe it is perfect some people ‘don’t get it.” So you don’t run stories about people not getting it. They are where they are meant to be. Maybe the person not getting it, is you! The choice then is yours to move onto where you are being called. There need not be any regrets as we accept the completion of things and cease to try and make things work that have ended. Its like for many of us we will live two completely different lives. One in lack and limitation associated with learning and one that is birthed from this new vibration in gain and ease. Maybe all does not come across the line and maybe for some it does. Accept your gig and the truth of this it will make the transition heaps easier. If you know you are being called to follow your true self and align to this collective energy then it is simple do it. Make the decision to quit all that affirms lack and limitation and step fully into yourself.

Commitment to self and others as a concept that births freedom may be irrelevant too. The deepest part of self is a given we just simply need to listen and follow. Once that is made we don’t need to commit to anyone or anything. This naturally is what we all are doing so aligning is not an effort. It is simply a natural occurrence when we follow our passion. If this is ignited by another be gracious what a gift – when we all ignite this with another we have lift off – we are then responding to what is true that unites us all.

Freedom is what is possible when you get out of all the should’s, would’s, shame, resentment, guilt and old thinking patterns that keep you looping.

This changes whole construct regarding relating and how we set up relationships and partnerships. It means much of the givens regarding love and how we structure our unions is no longer applicable. The market regarding relationship therapy forces us to always believe we can work it out, we can change, our partner will change. Just maybe this new energy has different ideas for us all.

The heart is the new brain – it is your guidance system – you act and follow it. You say what you know when you wish to. At same time you know the one’s aligning with unity and this gig know it all anyway. Words do not even need to be spoken it is GOT. This changes how we relate in relationships - to speak our truth, say what we think, have people understand us – it fuels a new way of communicating that includes our verbal skills, vibrational communication and energetic transfer as a given. That forces you to value energy, ways others are communicating with you and not be so hell bent on what is the truth, how people should relate. There becomes an appreciation for all ways we relate.

There is a deep sense of trust now within you as you trust what drives us all into unification.

Maybe we all are in process and that process means we fall, crumble, feel ignited, happy and sad – all of it and that is normal.

What happens when you hang out with each other with this absolute choice made? Then walking beside one another is easy and effort less. Life now can be simple. Sure it is human meaning we will have many of our old choices and constructs to simultaneously live within as we transition to the new but we will work it out as we go. We have the capacity to align with all.

The joy comes now when we hang out and express. We are just learning the new way to live. The simplification of our day to day lives means we can experience more harmony, joy and at same time together we will stumble and be faced with new pieces of the puzzle walking with all.

There is no one to teach. You may still embrace the teacher/leader within you but the delivery will be from a new place inside of you. There is no work to be done with those that do not want to align. There is just simply the expression of who you are. Developing our goodness and radiance beside one another. It also means we can walk with all in our various relationships. We hang with all – diving in and out with choice.

Leadership and 'guru' status is also to be transcended. In anyway you as a leader dominate through fear and control then this will be blasted. This energy will not sustain people, we will not follow this if we are a free thinker. This means leadership dynamics need to be really challenged, ways we teach people, how we lead and what we aspire to be as a leader. The whole paradigm of what is a great leader is definitely an important question for us all to consider and to question. What am I following? Who do I follow? Am I aligned to what is best for me? Am I courageous enough to follow my own unification? Am I willing to walk beside my equals to grow and evolve inter - dependent relationships?

There is no past, there is no more referencing yourself as wounded and distinctions regarding what you lack. You simply are becoming more whole – expanding all the time and enjoying this process.

The game we play with mind consciousness and awareness is not real either.

The way we live is that as pure energy in a physical body - that by the is very valuable and we are in a 3 D real world simply to be with all. Choice is conscious and very powerful.

There is no healing paradigm you become a master of your energy system once you have transcended the soul constructs and ways your body was resting in illness, energy blocks or disease. This means you no longer seek solutions in modalities or ways of healing self, the system of your physical body is aligned with your heart, energy system and mind and is in the continual process of unification.

The ways we will learn and discover who we are will unfold that are joyful and easy. Entertainment using music, sound and pleasure maybe how we learn. Using new platforms for personal evolution rather than the association with evolution being arduous and in struggle.

Money and our association to this will evolve. Maybe it is not even about giving and receiving. Money is already in existence – we are full, over flowing there is nothing to manifest. New perspectives regarding money, creation, wealth will evolve as we evolve.

If we want NEW then I think we allow new to come through us. For that to happen you have to give up what you think you know. That means the masculine force that has dominated us all will feel despair and depression. The mind will fight to know. The ego will be angry. Embrace this and allow this emotion to process through you. Below this is what is true in our hearts and the answers come through us when we allow them to. You have to want to not know. You have to be willing to be a conduit. You are being called to make harsh choices that follow your hearts calling no matter how irrational that may seem, trust it!

You have to cease how you think YOUR truth is the whole truth. There is NO truth. There is simply what is true for each of us and our beautiful, human expression – which fumbles, gets it all mixed up, dark and light, real and perfect in our discovery of who we are.

Life then becomes about the EXPERIENCE. You simply live from a paradigm of will this experience bring me joy? You live within this construct of trusting self 100% and living for the experience. That looks like the desire and passion comes through your heart as a call to experience whatever it is that is surging through you. This light – passion then is felt and we do not make it come through with what our mind wants. It is a natural flow of energy that flows through you, we follow and we then walk into the experience.

We have built internal trust, sincerity, integrity so we trust ourselves with what we feel to be true. It may not fit in with what we once thought or even societies opinions but we have accepted we are here as a builder of this new world so cease to judge ourselves based on our old assumptions of how we should live, love and be. We have our own honour code at the same time that reflects our goodness, truth and beauty in the new we are co creating. This serves not only the “I’ ( individual) but the “We” ( relationship/partnership/family) and the ‘Its’ (world/bigger systems).

Imagine if you had no resistance to any experience. When we have no resistance to anything what is true can come to us. Whilst we have resistance we keep it away or it is all we experience. The multi dimensional nature of us all is here for the experience of life in reality. We would live then without any attachment to any experience for example: imagine if you were open to not having sex, to having sex with your great love in an elevator in wild abandon, to not having money, to having oodles of money, to allowing your passion to flow as pure energy and euphoria, to having no passion.

This then becomes the experience of FREEDOM. This is the new HERO'S JOURNEY.

Now we enter the NEW paradigm not as a concept but as a felt experience of living life to its fullest.

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THE LEAKY BOAT

Posted on Oct 17th, 2008 by Sarah : Writer, Teacher Sarah

I have been thinking about this collective energy and its impact on us all. What I see is it floods us with light/information/energy. We can receive this as an inflow of universal intelligence. This can create fatigue, confusion, lack of inspiration and oscillating states of highs and lows in some people. It depends upon how much density you have in your body – wounds/ego/resistance. This is what we call our “leaky boat”. The big wound/emotional pattern/leak that hinders us. We are being called once and for all to release the ‘leaky boat’ from the marina.

For me this is INSECURITY. I often write big picture blogs because it is the “one hat I wear” – it just comes easily through me with no effort. It also keeps me “looking” very secure – phew! Yet, I am very human and everything written from a higher frame has a simple human application. That means I am stumped like us all with what to do – where to go – how to integrate. Through my own process of living with this challenge I/we discover ways we can simply integrate energetic shifts into our physical and mental bodies. This translates into a new reality. Because your vibration becomes more full with less leaky boats. Our life experiences then reflects where our energetic vibration sits.

The “leaky boat” of the moment sits in our base chakra – the arena for safety and security. It is evident collectively amplified with the big driver occurring with our monetary system triggering us into some form of insecurity around MONEY. When your insecure we make dishonest choices. The choices are fear based, we actually are not in choice but delude ourselves we are.

If we have some or any form of insecurity (which by the way everyone does) then it will manifest in a variety of ways:

  • You may expect to make more money and manifest this – but never get beyond this income level = stuck
  • You may feel out of control without a certain amount of savings in the bank = dependant
  • You may live from day to day completely stressed regarding money = unsafe
  • You may continue to go into unsafe relationship / partnership situations expecting a safe outcome only to be activated time and time again = rattled
  • You may look like a loose canon swinging from one creative idea to the next with never any taking full form in your life = frustration
  • You may stay in a union because your insecurity keeps you there instead of following your heartfelt desires = dishonest
  • You may look financially secure but are deeply insecure - your worth comes from making money alone = delusion
  • You may be so generous and wish to please everyone to avoid feeling unsafe and disliked = resentment
  • You may be so insecure that your unable to communicate what you want until you think it is safe therefore never taking risks with your heart = unfulfilled

I could use many examples. The point I am making is if we want a base of security and safety in our real world we build it as an energy system within our physical bodies. The distinctions made with our minds is great, the emotional embracement is key without making self wrong. Then how does it change my energy?

This is how we do this?

* We allow the INFLOW of energy to fill our system. That may mean you take a break – rest – allow the inflow of light.
* When your ready to be inspired you will know because you will feel active and creative = OUTFLOW.
* In time INFLOW and OUTFLOW will move smoothly with less extreme experiences
* We have to want to receive the light that is key - that is your choice. You have to want a new experience of yourself and a different reality.
* At the same time we QUIT our “leaky boat” pattern release it from the dock – say farewell it ain’t coming back.
* Give up or quit external control – this is now built inside of self as internal control and security.
* Simultaneously we ask for the full integration of our system to be one filled with a sense of safety within.

As this integrates you then will start to feel full and free. Your accessing kundalini energy, your sexual energy ignites more passion/money and all will start to flow. As this balances out we will enter situations with a stronger sense of self and more than likely the outcomes we experience will reflect the stability we have as our foundation for life.

The decisions we make, our courage and hearts will now be aligned with a secure base inside of self.

I don't know about you but my leaky boat is not a raft or a canoe it is the TITANIC and its sinking!!! ha ha ha
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THE ENERGY FAMILY

Posted on Oct 23rd, 2008 by Sarah : Writer, Teacher Sarah

There is much discussion regarding the NEW feminine energy here now. There is also heaps of information regarding ascension, becoming whole and unity consciousness. I think the leap is one we take in stages, it is a process. I also think IT does not happen to you. You dance with this energy integration. It will permeate through your body. It will open your mind to have expanded thinking and the ability to think beyond personalisation, either/or frames and all or nothing processing.

In the integration the emotional body maybe activated this will lessen as you allow this integration to occur. The opportunity as I see it - is for us all whether male or female to allow the integration of the permeating energies to unify inside of us. Leading to a unified energy, mind and emotional system developing certainty, radiance and healthy perspectives. This affects our creative potential, the ways we relate, it opens up the light within us, it creates fulfillment and a relaxed serenity to your being ness.

THE ROAD TO THIS
The pathway may not feel great at times so here is some ideas that may assist those interested in the integration of our energy system.

We all have dark feminine and masculine energy and a wounded child. The three make up the energy family – all need to be working to have an integrated system of unity = ability to create and vibrate in a free flowing system. This will open up a new possibility with unification in love, the relationship we have with money and fulfilling our desires. Just opening self up to receive love/ the new feminine is NOT integral nor healthy. The light comes through when the dark is embraced.

Beyond this I actually think we will NOT even see energy or life as dark and light, masculine or feminine. All of these now are evident to me as mind constructs of limitation we created to label and define things. For now we will embrace them but beyond this I think as we unify and walk as integrated human beings our leadership, ways we love and how we interact will go beyond many of these “givens”.

What LIMITS us:

* Some of us have had our masculine energy so dis - empowered by the dark feminine energy we fail to use our decision making and choosing faculty in a decisive way in our lives
* Many of us become seduced by spiritual new age concepts and identification of “love” - we float and seek solutions becoming vagabonds with no real world success and a delusional perspective of what love is
* Others have dominating masculine energy for fear of the dark feminine judging the ‘darkness of this in others”. In rejecting this inside of us we are unable to see the “seduction” game of the dark feminine. We then become controlled by this elsewhere in our lives where we think the feminine is healthy and loving mmmmmm
* We are dependant upon the feminine in other rejecting the feminine capacity of trust, flow and openness in self
* Others have been attached to their dark feminine and its manipulation of others under the guise it is their ‘gift’ keeping the magnificence of energy in the dark only fuelling the resistance to this in the masculine (  and rightly so this has been an unhealthy feminine)
* Then others have completely rejected the masculine strength inside of self seeking this in a man and/or dominate masculine energy in other


THE 3 ROLES INSIDE OF US ALL

DARKNESS OF FEMININE
Manifests as the ‘witch/priestess/sage’ energy that dominates through energy and wisdom used in unhealthy ways sabotaging creation in our lives. Also representative as the needy/manipulative woman who controls others through doing/giving/ an over identification with being a healer/ martyr/mother. If we are seeing seduction/manipulation/guilt played out in our world it is the suppression of our dark feminine. The feelings of doubt, hopelessness and despair and fatigue many feel on this apparent ‘spiritual’ path is when the dark feminine has GOT YOU and is winning this game = the dark masculine is dis –empowered and cant move forward so feels inertia and stuck. The dark masculine wins back power by arrogance, rigid thinking, ego and withholding emotion to feel safe but disconnected from self and others. This cycle goes round and round until we embrace all here


INNER WOUNDED CHILD
Is present behind all of these and sits in weakness, deep insecurity and feelings of unsafety seeking a healthy mother or father and often indicative in who we choose as our partners in life. As we integrate all of this we enter into healthy relationships built on love, passion and respect. This part of us must be loved and healed by self so it is not the dark child but free and joyful. Until this happens there will be no genuine experience of joy, joy will be fulfilled through experiences with other through sexual acts, dependence upon people, financial success, activity and/or achievement.


DARKNESS OF MASCULINE
Wants to control the dark feminine because it resents the feminine aspect of self who is free. The freedom we seek actually sits within the feminine. Ironically it is promoted as a masculine energy and THE HERO’s JOURNEY. There is actually no freedom in the masculine that is the double bind.The mind is never free. Therefore trust and flow cannot occur for us in the creative process as we experience this resentment of the feminine. If also cannot occur for us if we seek freedom through the mind and masculine. True freedom comes when all is integrated. This is seen in life in power dynamics with men/ masculine energy dominated situations. Often is seen as an experience of dishonesty in self and others and an obsession with injustice in the world - it is ALL you see. Insecurity and distrust runs this energy system but is cleverly covered up as confidence and success. The opportunity for the masculine is pure choice, its ability to direct, hold, be the strength - that is its job inside of us all.


THE HEALTHY OPPORTUNITY
The healthy masculine knows the feminine provides her/him with freedom so embraces her. The masculine loves the wounded child and embraces her/him. The feminine sees and embraces the darkness of the feminine owns it and ceases to let it seduce the masculine. This creates flow, trust, choice, security and healthy courage. The healthy masculine makes choices and decisions when all of this is integrated that serves all and from the heart. The healthy feminine knows she is powerful, full and strong and is the inflow for the creative process. She is the ocean and the wave and loves her job as this. The inner healed child feels safe and secure – his/her parents are rocking along just fine all in balance. The energy family is united within all roles healthy and therefore creation is clean and expansive.


CREATION MANTRA
My healthy masculine chooses a healthy inflow of ( whatever you are choosing for example: money/love/joy/new opportunities/success/travel/desires etc) into my life and trusts the healthy feminine will take care of this and my healed child feels safe and secure in this family dynamic where everyone is looked after and following their healthy roles


HOW WILL THIS LOOK:

* The insecurity stuck at base chakra is integrated in us all and we choose to 100% integrate and embrace all of our insecurity and imbalance here by seeing it and handing it over
* The masculine energy inside of us is working for us and we embrace the darkness of the masculine as well as our healthy masculine who creates through empowered choice
* The healthy feminine is in trust and inflow and we embrace the darkness of the feminine and our seducer
* The healed child is safe and secure and we ask our masculine to love and cherish and hold our inner child
* The doubt and logic regarding energy and its ability to transform is no longer evident as it is balanced inside of. It is also no longer in the dark, it is in the light expressed, considered and used with discernment
* This creates a clean and healthy individual who therefore no longer carries any resentment to the masculine and/or feminine, old wounds re childhood and any imbalance re her feminine and/or masculine sexual energy.


This integration of all is inclusive and integral and creates a flowing energy system = creation with goodness and integrity in the world. This might possibly be how we experience and create money from a new place inside of self, in business and in structures that have ended in lack till now. It also opens up potential for unification with each other in love that is truly uplifting and passionate. It also means the journey and arduous nature many have felt as we evolve is no longer apparent. We will no longer be carrying around the dark cloud - phew! The inner child is genuinely delightful to be around and feels joy. The masculine in us is free and means we no longer experience the weakness and lack of courage of this in self. The story many women hold regarding men is also dumped sorry gals but it is a pure reflection of yourself. The feminine within us can feel relaxed and in flow allowing men to cherish us and be the experience of their masculine strength and freedom. Our relationships becoming safe, exciting and dynamic with men and women in flow with their energy system.
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